Wife Declares She is a Lesbian

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I agree Cadet and that's what I'm trying very hard and hopefully succeeding, i think to do.
W thinks that this is just between me and her and that it's got nothing to do with the girls, and that it won't affect them at all!
She hasn't seen them crying.
The three of us don't want our family broken up like this, we'll support each other, but we all still want it to be the four of us.
However, it seems we don't have a choice!