Pilot, I like the way you are thinking. I 100% agree with the no more $$$ help. It's a big bad world out there and I wouldn't enable any longer. You might just take the bull by the horns and say something like. WAw I miss you and the kids miss you and want you to come home. Show her some real strength when you say this. She has seen the impact this has had on everyone by now. I don't know if vets would like this or not. You don't have to make it an ultimatum. Just say it and let it go for her to think about. PILOT I know how you feel. It's frustrating! Stay strong and show your boys that you love there mom and will persevere.
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