MrBond, I agree with you 100%. Except, you know, for building a better marriage in the first place. She snuck off with him 7/19 somewhere. Constant texting and pics (nothing racy.) One of the texts is directly linked to "activity."
I can control some things from here forward, even if it means getting ridiculous (which I don't intend to do.) I don't have to sign the existing divorce decree, that's for sure.
I won't be walked on. She needs to come clean. I will see where it leads from there.
Me: 43 XW: 43 T15 M14 D21, SS15, S11, D8 BD: 8/6 EA / possible PA discovered 9/29 D final 10/20