Wife Declares She is a Lesbian

[Cadet]

Before we went to dinner eldest was crying in the kitchen and we had a hug and talk.

Eldest D and W are now not talking.
More on that later.

Just be the BEST DAD that you can be.

It is hard to be a child in this sich,
there is no winning and adult children are in some respects worse off than young ones.

You know your children best.

They will somewhat take their cues from YOU.
If you are strong and happy and healthy then they will be too.