H agreed to go to this after bomb drop a few months ago and I think it's probably just so he can say he tried. He said he would attend if there were no expectations put upon him. I agreed asking that he simply be open to the experience. I am scared now because DB says not to talk about the R. Of course the R is the focus at the retreat. Has anyone attended one of these marriage intensives?
It is unlikely based on what he is saying that they will help. It takes two people to be in a marriage and if you are the only one that is all in, then there is not much that you can DO directly.
Your actions need to now be more counter intuitive.
Sorry to tell you all that but it is the truth.
Protect yourself.
You can only move forward there is no going backwards and forward may not seem like the direction to move but it is the correct path.
