"I have read DR. After what happened tonight I don't have a snowballs chance in hell of fixing this."
Why not?
"I will be thankful if he just goes away. H threatening to have me charged with invasion of privacy..."
I've heard much worse when my W was at the height of her situation. You have to be stronger than that.
"He is defending OW and wanting to destroy me...22 years for him to treat me like this. I'm such a wreck right now..."
You can do it. You're stronger than that. You know what he's saying isn't true. In fact, it's par for the course the WAS lashing out at the LBS. You need to detach.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.