Any thoughts by anybody on this and my earlier writings?
Reading quickly what you wrote, and I may have missed something.
Do you think you can FIX this?| Cause the two of you are now on separate journeys. You can FIX YOU but not HER.
25mlc like to say make yourself into a person that only a FOOL would leave, those are the changes that you need to make. There are no guarantees that your marriage will be restored.
The only thing I can say is the LBS gets to choose in the end, and if you have not yet choosen then it is not yet the end.