Just take it easy and make sure you make time for yourself to think through whats next. Is confronting going to be the right thing to do? What do you want to acheive by confronting? Hopefully one of the vets can chime in with some actual advice.

Sandi put a really good explanation about her fog on my thread which might help you.

In the meantime and as absurb as it sounds try and have a good day. Im still rooting for it to work out for you


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress