I'm fine. Now the suddenness of her BD and relative failure of DB (even when I was doing it better a month ago) makes sense...in the short term, anyway. Deciding my next move. Intend to confront, let her know if she comes clean we can keep things moving (or try to reconnect!, which is what I really want) civilly, but there's about to be a new sheriff in town. My kids are NOT going to be raised by another man. F that.

I'm certainly detached now.

I kid you not, a gym owner. Classic.

Last edited by Shakspr; 09/30/14 07:24 AM.
Me: 43 XW: 43
T15 M14
D21, SS15, S11, D8
BD: 8/6
EA / possible PA discovered 9/29
D final 10/20