Newbie poster here, and like most, I have been reading for some time before starting to post here as from late last week.
Your thread is one I have been following: excellent confidence booster you just received from your W's friend (I was just writing about such, as part of becoming/being attractive)!
Me:47 W:45 T:18 M:14 No children BD: Jun 2014 INILWY and want to divorce W filed Divorce: Jul 2014 W moved out: Aug 2014