i have to ask this...are your taking any meds?? If not you might want to look into seeing someone about that. You are all over the place dude!!
You KNOW the best solution to your sitch is DISTANCE and DETACHING. You know these things work. The problem is that you go for the quick fix. You shut W out for a few hours or a day and she is right there, knocking at your door or calling you on the phone and you go with that. You talk abuot W being F-d in the head...the problem is you LET her do the things she does!!! SHe KNOWS what buttons to push to get her way, she knows when to cry and when to through a temper tantrum...she probably has even figured out that if she gives you a little then she is almost guaranteed to get her way. Whe uses your S and her other children to achieve her needs.
ONLY YOU CAN CHANGE THIS!!! She certainly won't, not while she has it this good.
ANswer me this:
If you were gven the choice of having your M intact into your golden years or ml to your W just one more time what would you do. There are catch's though.
In order to keep your M intact you must make an extreme sacrifice. You must give up your sight or your hearing. Without sight you will no longer be able to see your W but you WILL be able to hear her voice and take comfort in hearing her say ILY until the day one of you passes. Without hearing you will be able to see your W during your waking moments but her voice will never grace your ears and you may never be able to completely comprehend or understand her...BUT...she will ALWAYS be by your side.
If you choose to ml to her just one more time...your M will end. You will loose EVERYTHING and will basically render yourself deaf AND blind to your W for ALL time.
WHAT IS YOUR CHOICE??
Yo can't have it both ways, anymore then your W can. You want things to change (?)...then CHANGE them!!
Hugz, Zoo
"If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm."
- Mahatma Gandhi
