Interesting or maybe not . Been using Facebook to show my GAL I'm not really sure that's why one ought to use FB...but I AM sure you are not to GAL to get a reaction from your w.
We GAL to help us detach (and obsess less too) and NOT to get a reaction from our spouse.
The 180s are there to counter the negatives our WASs may have used to justify leaving, but the GAL are all for US.
and after 2 weeks WAW has unfriended me . It was after I posted loads of photos of me and my daughter having a great time at an evening festival . If your goal was to upset or guilt your wife, I guess it worked.
What were you hoping or expecting her to do? I mean, what was your goal--if you know?
If it was to show your w that you are a good involved dad, you did not have to be quite so public about it. Your w may feel shame or anger at you
OR she may feel that "it's only NOW that I want out, that h is a good dad", and so, dig deep to figure out what your goal was.
I doubt it was to be unfriended- so figure out why your "plan" backfired. And remember that you are not really supposed to be spending your energy on getting a reaction FROM HER but on your own issues. That's where your focus is supposed to be, right?
Not to mind read but think it may have got to her but possibly not in the way it was intended .
Oh it did get to her and I'd bet not at all the way you intended. My objection is to your intention. You using your d to get to your wife isn't loving. It's just really manipulative and if your w says you are controlling, then you just proved it.
If I were you, I'd think hard on this and use it as a teaching point.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
