I can see a lil from his possible view...

Detaching ...I'm tying to detach ....it seems like when I feel detached H seems to reach out to me.

Is detaching harder with the MLC in the house?

I need to focus on pulling back...H was off today I was off and he made a point to watch a movie with me..I wanted to be alone but I watched movie with him.

When S came home we ate dinner and watched another movie.

Hard for me to detach mentally and emotionally but not physically.

rereading but my mind is blocked I feel like I want things to change now!!!

I'm confused


Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW