Well, W is now in bed reading after a "normal" evening of dinner, homework, etc. No mention of any "situation" by her and I sure as heck didn't even so much give her a look that suggested anything was different or that I wanted/was expecting to talk.
So, back to the ruse, it seems- I doubt W would have said anything if OM hadn't called me. With me gone on business all week, its unlikely to come up by phone, either.
Tomorrow I'll txt her about arrangements for the D mediator and we'll go from there.
Me: 45 W:43 M: 15, T:21 2 Kids- S-14, D-12 A Started: 10/2013 Discovered as EA: 6/2014, as PA: 7/2014 A changing, not ending Start DB'ing 9/2014 Same house, same bed