On the humor thing...I have decided to approach it the same way I do (moderate) alcohol use. I only do it when I am in a good mood to begin with.

Haven't done much drinking since BD, that's for sure. 3 beers in 6 weeks.

Me: 43 XW: 43
T15 M14
D21, SS15, S11, D8
BD: 8/6
EA / possible PA discovered 9/29
D final 10/20