Will convos like that always be that hard? How do you think I did?
No, it won't always be that difficult but it takes time and practice. When you feel whatever that feeling is that goes along with "I need to be right" it's always a good idea to say, "I need to take some time to think about what you've said. Let's talk again tomorrow." Don't drop it, always say when you want to revisit. That way the other person knows they're not getting the brush-off.
You did a great job with that!
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
