Owing to a trick of the call-waiting, my IC got hold of me today and spent 14 minutes and 20 seconds begging and pleading for me to come back, offered me a free session, denying that he'd said the stuff about my husband, backtracking like crazy on my moving on and finding love again, claiming to have misread the infamous hug, etc.
I held VERY FIRM for 14 minutes and 20 seconds and did not waver at all. I told him that there was no way I could close myself into a small room with him again and feel good about myself. I said I had taken time to consider my feelings and my decision and that I felt very confident about it. He still was nagging. It was kind of awful.
He would not take no for an answer. Finally I said "This is how I feel. If I change my mind then I know how to reach you. But as things are, I absolutely can not go back." And that he finally accepted.
I feel STRONG.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
