What I meant was, you have been DBing for a year now. Now you are talking of D. Why? Why not just move on in your own life, let you W file for D or not. But you move on whatever... Then the ball is in her court, and you will be prepared for which ever way things go, that's all.
I was merely recommending that you not precipitate D proceedings yourself, that's all.
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
