If you are tired and have decided that either way is OK for you, just detach, get on with your life, really, drop all talk of divorce or no divorce, just face forwards and move on.
Look to yourself, let your W work out what she wants on her own. You have just said that either say is OK now, so live life like that. Build your own happiness.
Don't react, ACT!
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
