So if you want to D her tomorrow, the intel might be good. Why do you hate to give it up? Really think about that.

If it's affecting you physically, how helpful is it?

Figure out who you want to be through this, what you want to project to the outside world from inside you. See her as gone, your marriage over and proceed accordingly.

Your W is in an A with another man.

Doesn't mean you treat her poorly, but see the situation as it truly is.

Is she going to move out? Sorry I don't remember all the details.

Do you have an IC?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss