I'm not sure whether it will do any good. On the one hand I don't think she believes I understand what I've done wrong but at the same time she will probably see it as me being manipulative.
It goes round in circles of knowing what I've done wrong but then immediately whipping out the scorecard to look at how she was unfair to me before coming back to owning my mistakes because they are what I can fix.
To an extent I think that writing them might be a useful exercise for my IC which is something to ask. Whether I give them to her is a separate question.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
