Have I any hope.... (Part 3)

[bashy]

Heh guys. I havent been on the forum much as I have been detaching for real and GALing.... honestly. Started drum lessons recently. WOW!!! Loving it... now saving for an electronic kit as a real one would be too loud.
Meeting new friends in work including a young girl (well shes 10 years younger than me) that has recently split from her bf. Now before you guys say anything, yes, shes beautiful, but I love my wife. There is NOTHING going on and I am certainly not interested. She lives close by and she's made me dinner, we went to see a live band, went to the cinema... she's telling me about her ex, about guys chatting her up in work, asking my advice etc. Me, you say lol??!!! I know.
But anyway, she has a little cat and I asked could I bring my D round to meet it as D loves cats and dogs. So we went on Sat. D loved playing with it. We left after 30 mins and told me she loved the cat and that my work friend was 'very pretty'.
Soooo, WAW has been ringing me every other day about IVA and christmas etc. Since last convo I told her we'd buy our own presents but leave them under the one tree at her house. I said I'd love to stay.
Sooooo (again), I get a phone call from WAW today.... a day after she collected D from me and two days after D had been to friends house to see the cat. She tells me she needs a receipt from mortgage people when we go 'voluntary repossession' on our house ie giving the keys back. I say: 'no probs, I'll email you a copy'. She then proceeds to tell me that her benefits have dropped, she can no longer afford to leave or collect D and that I will now have to collect and leave D home every week. Then she tells me that she thinks xmas is a bad idea and that it's better if we do our own thing incase we have a row or something between now and then.
I was thinking....'were has all this come from'....then told her I can't afford to drive both ways as I'm saving for a house. She hits back that she isn't in a position to argue butI'd need to find a way as she can't afford it.
So I told her I'd need to go away and think about things. I didn't row and remained calm.
I wil definitely collect and take home D... no point her suffering. But annoyed at WAW. She obviously has enough money to go out with friends etc but not this.
Ah well, but it seems more than coincidence that a day after D probably told WAW about cat and 'my pretty friend' that this has all happened.
Thoughts guys and gals....