Wow, yes, that does make alot of sense. I can live with that. Especially for the kids sake. I think it makes so much more sense to have both a mom and a dad around. We were working on the R for a while, but she was also working on her exit plan too unfortunately. Thanks for helping find this answer. I don't mind sleeping in a tent in the back yard if I know my family is close and safe.
Me:40 W:39 M:Dec 95 Split: Jul 14 W Filed: 9/16/14 Several Children (including adopted)