Thanks for the new thread, I saw your other one but alas.... it was been flushed away by the purge.
I would ask about the water issue. Why is he even handling it?
If you are expecting him to handle it without prodding/nagging/etc. Why would you have created that expectation?
What is to keep you from handling it? 2 months ago you were getting cars fixed, juggling 2 jobs & knocking it out of the park as a parent.
I guess I would ask: What is the mission here? To prove he can get a "deal"? or to get hot water so you can bathe, eat, and do laundry?
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13