H's MLC #4

[woundedfool]

While I can see you recognize the blowup was not the right way to handle things, this may come off as kicking you when your down. But I am NOT trying to kick:

I want you to change perspective. I want you to look at the past few days from your H's view:

• Had really good ML last light
• I attended S's game
• I even had her listen in my my call when I needed to pull a double, and I even called her during my break that night.
• So, I didn't kiss her.... and she goes all WWIII on me and "throws" her ring at me.
• On top of this, I still need to get a suit for Bob's funeral.

Could you please re-read DB & DR for me. I think you need to get back to some of the fundamentals.

You still need to do some major detaching: The whole point of detachment is so you get off HIS crazy train. Not to start your own.
You also need to focus on those GAL's.

When you are still "attached" and not following through with your GAL's, your mind starts spinning/wandering/thinking (why is he taking a double shift, why didn't he kiss me back, why doesn't he wear his ring). Doing the GAL's and detaching not only keeps us occupied, but also burns energy. Helps us sleep better, keeps us from going nuclear over a kiss (or lack thereof)