Divorced and moving out.....still hopeful

[NewB3]

New83, if you're not ready, don't give up. There are plenty of re-marriages after D. But if you're staying the course, then stay the right course: DB!! Detach, GAL, 180. If you don't, you will have no chance. Nothing is less attractive to a woman than a needy, codependent beggar. Be the best MAN you can be and post here anytime you need to. We're listening

I am 180, not having to do them anymore, they are now a way of life. Detached 85% from what I felt, mostly the past 8 weeks. GAL is hard, see my last thread, but doing best I can at that.
Thanks for the replies! Let's have a conversation that will help others just starting this same path. Learn to walk this marathon before you can run it. This is NOT a race, but a journey. I can stop at anytime, however, I choose to be a better man and work on me. WAW has an open door, but it is her choice. I know she will be doing more soul searching and thinking once I am out.
Quick funny thing. She asked if she could use my boxes once I move out. I told her I would flatten them and on my last run, she could have them. She said she "did not want them flat......to save taping them again." Hmmm, and she will come get them. OKAY that means multiple trips, in her car to get boxes that I can return in one shot. Well, I guess that is a good sign??