A valid question in my mind remains would I take her back knowing it's just for financial reasons.
FunDad, some of the ladies on this board have had this discussion. Would we want our H's back if the triggering event was financial. Several of us say, yes, we don't care what the triggering event is, if that starts us down the path to R. Not that we would just accept them back without additional work from both of us, just that we don't care why they decided to put in the work. Make sense?