I don't have much time but I wanted to acknowledge the last few posts.....
Thanks T2, you and I have MUCH in common, the one difference I think is that my W waited until she went back to work after being a SAHM for many years before she went into full on MLC. If it makes any difference, even if your W had gone back to work, I doubt it would have changed a single thing. The seeds of her crisis were already planted and growing. You have given me much to ponder and I want to not just react to anything. I want to consider first.

uR, I'm so sorry if I haven't responded in the past. I want you to know I do listen and appreciate what you have posted now and in the past. Again, no time now to post back but know you are appreciated.