So, an hour and a half before I was due to bring D14 over to H's place, he calls and invites us to dinner to celebrate a work accomplishment for him -- something I've been supporting him with for the past several years. He wants to take me out to thank me. Turns out he wanted to celebrate all weekend, but didn't have people to celebrate with. Even though I'm the consolation prize, I'm glad he invited me (and picked up the check). It makes me feel like I did the right thing by waiting for him to initiate contact. I have to trust that he will seek me out on his own terms and in his own time, if that's what is to be. Anyway, immediately afterward I went out by myself and heard some fantastic music, and had a great night overall.
Feeling good right now, no matter what the outcome. I did get a hug after dinner. We had some fun reminiscences, but I have to say, I'm still not very attracted to him right now. I'm sure it's just because my view of him is tainted by all the hurt and confusion. I wonder if that will change in time if our circumstance change?
Last edited by Ahoy; 09/29/1411:26 AM.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!
