My Ws best friend has been having a PA for sometime and has been making plans to leave their husband for OM. I suspect she is encouraging some of this as she wants a partner in crime and is feeding a lot of grass is greener £#%&.
Detaching is always going to be hard, if it wasn't then why are we bothering to try and save the marriage. Keep up the PMA and I hope things work out for you
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress