Can I ask a question and sorry if this is in DB but I'm still waiting fr or Amazon to deliver my copy.

One of the issues seems to be that my wife hasn't forgiven me for things that I've done wrong. I have apologised countless tines though I expect I have always cone across sounding like I'm trying to justify myself.

I'm now thinking that I should handwrite her an apology (actually a series if apologies) that clear set out what I did wrong and fully apologise for this without making any excuses or expectations. I would hope that she sees these as genuine but as much as anything it will ease my conscience.

So here's the question. Is this a good idea? Or should I write them but not give them?


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress