It's hard to let go of the life you thought you wanted, but you do need to let it go. And start building the life you want.
And this next is very personal to me, special...but I'm going to share it anyway:
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It is because you looked inside and saw your flaws and hers. And even when you did, what you really saw, was your capacity to love. You faced your flaws and changed what you needed to. You saw her flaws and loved her.
What an incredible thing to do even when you were getting nothing in return. You loved her true and real, T, even when she wasnt lovable.
You learned to love you, too. Even when that wasnt comfortable.
I have not shared that before, Matt. That is really the crux of it all.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm