We had a talk about this recently, To her...it felt like CONTROLLING then...and she understands NOW why I did what I did, her role in this dynamic we cycled and fed into...that I wasn't intentionally being controlling, that I was looking out for the family as a whole...but 3 years ago? Nope.
And this is why she has to go and figure out herself and become a strong, confident, mature woman who can take of herself and not put all that onto someone else. <--- her words.
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In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
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