Is this the same W you had back in 2008 when you first joined?
It is. Can't believe its been that long - where does time go.
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All I can say is you need to man up and stop accepting this outrageous disrespect from a woman who has done nothing but play you for a fool.
I moved out today into my sisters house. Honestly, I feel like crap for doing it. This morning I got another birating about the food. Her aunt called me later that morning and told me that I need to seriously get out of the house – that my wife is never going to change as long as I tolerate her treating me with disrespect. Yesterday I was pretty much depressed all day long and now today I feel awful. Maybe I shouldn’t have left the house. I am so down and sad right now – I keep thinking about my daughter and how it must feel to be her right now. I failed. I feel so guilty and blame myself for allowing the marriage to get to this point. I am not holding up well.
My wife texted me about 50 messages – basically saying that I am coward, selfish, and every other mean thing a person can say. I sent her only one text message telling her that I love her and that I want to make this marriage work, but that I will not tolerate being berated, her seeing/calling/txting OM behind my back and not communicating/working with me to solve issues. She responded that I should just sign the divorce papers. I didn’t respond back but she kept calling my phone throughout the day. I sent her one last txt message telling her that I cannot talk to her right now until we are both ready to have an honest, open and willingness to listen conversation about the relationship. I basically got more verbal abuse via txt messages.
I’ve been crying most of the day and just feel ashamed, guilty and like I am abandoning my family. I know this is not logical but this hurts really bad. I can’t see any hope anymore. I’m trying to stay strong but this is hard.
