We have all had those days where we don't want to get dressed, don't be hard on yourself this is a very tough time.

My exH income also varies greatly from month to month, but my monthly support is constant through out each year - its based on his yearly income which we look at each year. I then get the standard amount for New York state 27%. Child support is not based on your expenses only on his income.

Stay strong, you are so blessed


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13