Thankfully, I believe that this is over (not the A, but the late night trysts, 2 or 3 times per week), since now the OM lives 2000 miles away and at best (according to both my W and the OMW), he will be coming back every two weeks.
My W has no plans to move down there, so I have no idea where their R will end up.
So your wife has no plans to move down there?... However this is what you told us in July.... Your wife told you she has every intention of following him. Something isn't making sense here....
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A few more pieces of information.
- The OM (co-worker) is her boss. They can both get in serious trouble if this is found out and it could put a black eye on their careers.
- The OM recently received a job offer which will locate him out of state. WAW indicated previously that she has every intention of following him, but only after a year (she would need to get things settled here -- selling the house, etc.). She indicated that it is 99.9% certain that he will accept the job. Shortly, he will be flying down there and they will be physically separated for several months. He will be flying back occasionally only to see my WAW and his kids.
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4. Not putting in my fair share into the relationship. She always the giver, I was the taker.
Your wife is a giver, which is more reason to believe she may be willing to follow the OM...
Your wife "says" she is also taking a week off to go on a vacation 3000 miles away.... OM JUST left to start new job, 2000 miles away.... Your wife told you she was leaving Friday and then changed it to Thursday telling you she going with her "GF but wouldn't leave you any details.. ????? Your wife told you she dropped off her car at her Father's and had her father drive her over to her GF's house.... (why did she just not go to GF's house and leave her car there???????)Your wife says she is going 3000 miles away to talk to a male friend and stay with him to figure out some things.... A friend she hasn't seen in???? How many years??? 3000 miles away???
Big red flags here.. You are really being naive.. I would say that your wife and OM have this all planned and that she is meeting him...... 2+2=4......
You aren't seeing what is really going on here are you? You and the OM's wife are getting played here... Sorry to have to tell you this, but again... 2+2=4....
