communication. She's introverted generally and I was repressive with my feelings the past years due to a traumatic event that happened when i lost a few of my family members.


I was absent quite a bit due to past job and responsibilities taking care of family members. Especially the last five months

I wasn't as loving and affectionate as I should have been.Letting her know how important she was. I took her for granted through different times

Conflict......we haven't really fought fairly as emotionally we get charged up.

Spiritually I did not lead her the way i should have

Those are kind of the nuts and bolts.


Me: 29
W: 28
T: 7 years
M: 5 years
NO Kids

A/OM: suspected 6/8/14
A/OM: discovered 6/22/14
S: Aug. 23, 2014