Thanks for the replies. I know I cannot control her or what she does. Before reading any of this I told her that I do not feel right with a move out separation for two weeks. I told her that it is not doing either of us any favors and I need to be here for my daughter. I suggested we just do what we want when we want and coordinate watching our daughter accordingly . We can give each other space and work on things eventually over time. I will not give up and I cannot be the one to leave. If she wants out, she will have to make the decision to leave and be separated. She feels I want all or nothing.... I guess I do. We have a counseling session Tuesday and will see how that goes. I know a split will kill us financially, but that's part of life. We could each survive if we agree to, but if it gets ugly I'm screwed.
I think she feels we can split and remain good friends.....I don't see that as an option. Maybe that is wrong of me? I have realized that true love is a choice, not a fairy tale feeling . I've made my choice, she needs to make hers.
Last edited by dying; 09/29/1401:05 AM.
me-42 w-33 d-3 together-6 m-4yr 6/1/14-w check out 6/15/14-EA? 8/1/14-mc 9/1/14-IDLY-started DBing 9/15/14-w suggest separation 10/17/14 wife is done 12/13/2014 - wife move out me file 1/1/15
