So when you have time to do something and procrastinate, don't get upset with anyone else because now you feel rushed.
She can say/do whatever she wants; doesn't make it less irritating to be on the reciving end.
BF:40 M:33 SD: 12 T: 8, never married, no kids together BD: 8/4, "I'm just done", "...too tired and burnt to try". PA confirmed 8/5 "It happened, but it's been over for almost a year".