Is this the same W you had back in 2008 when you first joined?
Look, she told you she would work on the M, but hasn't had any form of affection with you and hasn't dropped OM, so clearly......she is not into this M!
All I can say is you need to man up and stop accepting this outrageous disrespect from a woman who has done nothing but play you for a fool. The way you take the sh't she pours on you is so unattractive I can't even explain it. I don't know why she is staying with you......but I wouldn't say it is out of love, by a long shot. Maybe she just wants something to kick around.
You have dealt with this since March......and a long time before you were going to file. Obviously, you need to move on or change drastically b/c this isn't working.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
I don't know why she is staying with you......but I wouldn't say it is out of love, by a long shot. Maybe she just wants something to kick around. 