you need to live. Not in fear, without expectations. I STINK at detaching, yet each time I let the rope slip a bit, and learn to validate without agreeing to things I don't believe in, it becomes marginally easier.
Baby steps. You don't have to tell her ANYTHING. If she pushes, tell her you expect her to make the best decision she can, and you have already stated how you feel about the situation.
Check out SUCCESS's story over on the post divorce thread. He was completely divorced for 7 months when his XW came back to him.
I'll echo Maybell. Two weeks is nothing. Read, learn, listen.
GAL
Me: 43 XW: 43 T15 M14 D21, SS15, S11, D8 BD: 8/6 EA / possible PA discovered 9/29 D final 10/20
