Yeah you have to GAL with friends, and or alone. It will feel strange to not have your H there and or worried about conversations with friends about your M.

But just find something and have some YOU time, enjoy yourself.

I had to smile and pretend for a while that everything was ok when I started to GAL, now its great fun and I look forward to my activities and yes I wish H was there to hang out, but he is not so I have as much fun as I can with my BFF's.

Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW