"I admit that I fail to understand what I'm missing yet rarely do I see your posts miss he mark"
No I didn't miss the mark. Your second explanation of what you meant is much better than what you "encouraged" others to do in your first post. Language and the way you say things are important in any relationship. Just because you didn't explain your belief a certain way isn't the reader's fault in understanding. It's yours.
Follow 25yearsmlc's advice.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.