too late?

[MrBond]

"Id love to think that she is angry because on some level she still loves me and that being angry at me makes leaving easier."

That's true to a point, but it shouldn't matter. Stop thinking about why she does or doesn't do something.

So far in your posts, I've seen how you "allow" your W to control your actions. Is this how you were when you first dated? Lose the fear and be the man you were before. No woman wants a guy they can control.