Jim: Don't mind-read; her reasons for saying and doing things they way that she is are multiple, layered, and possibly 100% smoke. Look up a term "Gaslighting" that Nitty taught me.

Get out of that house...frequently. If you aren't there, the time between aggravating and contentious interaction will grow. I think Caliguy called PMA, 180s, and GAL a "Triple threat" They work for a reason - because they work on you, and your W can't not see them, eventually.

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Me: 43 XW: 43
T15 M14
D21, SS15, S11, D8
BD: 8/6
EA / possible PA discovered 9/29
D final 10/20