I think the pit is still apprehension. You need to bite the bullet and start to do some things alone. Get out and push your boundaries. Do this without friends or family. Just you. Maybe something you did before marriage. Something you stopped doing. This will build your confidence that you are ok and can live your life. I know, I am having to push myself to do the same.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"
