Maybell,

Honestly, I'm not sure. She is really confusing me lately.

Nmwb113,

I'm sorry to hear that, I hope that she comes back

Sandi2,

You have a great point, her credit cards were allowing this point not to get hit for the past couple months (and the fact that she does have a decent paying job). Reality coming was not in my control at that point.

We are where we are at right now, I'm still shouldering a bunch of the financial burden, but luckily for her things are pretty tight. And the past month or two has been hell for her.

She has been panicking a bit, and lashing out at my while she is. I'm trying my best to survive it and withdraw, letting her come to me.


Me: 35
Her: 33
D : 16
S : 9
Together: 14 years
Married: 12
She left 4/14/2014
Separated: 5/25/2014
OM Confirmed 7/2014
She filed 8/7/2014
I Filed 10/21/2014
Divorce final 2/12/2015