Depressed WAW, digging in, learning about myself

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Hey Card, Over on Ss' thread you asked whether the book HTIYMWTAI is written for a female audience. Her thread has taken a different turn so I thought I'd reply over here.

Actually I think men and women will find HTIYMWTAI useful - it's no so much about either gender but how the dynamic plays out. Heck I learned more about myself reading it, not only the male perspective. I found it much more enlightening and tolerable than Men are from Mars…certainly more grounded in physiology/science (and less on gender roles if that makes any sense). MAFMWARV felt dated to me (highly educated, co-bread winner, no children) whereas HTIYMWTAI felt like a good read that integrated a lot of ideas (5LL, MAFMWARV, SSM)