Thanks 25yearsmlc. I've also read some of the advice you've posted others and just want to say thanks for being on here to do that. I think you've helped a lot of people and you're certainly helping me.
I'll try and watch those TED talks today.
The anger is a big change in my W. Not something I've really seen from her before and certainly not directed at me. Its a really stark contrast to a few days before she told me IDLY and she's kept it up for 3 weeks now.
Id love to think that she is angry because on some level she still loves me and that being angry at me makes leaving easier. On the other hand i know her well enough to know that she is feeling trapped and that is something she has always raged against. Equally it might be that she is seeing changes and resents that I didn't make them sooner. Or a combination of all this and other stuff. Pointlessness of mind reading I guess.
Blanks = Intentionally ignoring but accompanied by hostile/aggresive body language to indicate that it is deliberate.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
