Ok I think I'm really starting to get it. WAW just texted me that she won't be at church (apparently got drunk somewhere again). The last two months, even at my best, this would have hurt me (if not crushed me - sad to not see her, wildly wondering where she was/what she did). Instead, I said, "okay, feel better, good night" and that's really all I was interested in saying to her. If she chooses to worsen her depression by getting hammered with a depressant (alcohol), not my choice. I had a great Saturday and am looking forward to a fun Sunday. Only downer is that D2 is going back to her tomorrow.
Last edited by Card29; 09/28/1403:24 AM.
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23
